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Wandering
Wanderlust
my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. we seem to have different priorities in this relationship. I care for him and show him much respect. I also put his wants and needs before mine. where as he can be self centered and is beginning to expect me to just do whatever it is he wants. I wish he would recognize that I'm contributing more than he is and actually work on that along with genuinely wanting to give back to me. how could that be worked on?
– asked by Anonymous

This is exactly what happened to one of my friends!!! Talk to him but actually sit down with him or call him and have a serious conversation. Don’t stray off the point and get upset with him about silly things (like you getting him a present for some kind of anniversary and him not giving anything in return). Talk to him and let him know that you’re feeling neglected and like he puts his needs in front of yours. If he starts to get all aggressive and nasty then calmly end the conversation, its a major issue but if its not serious enough to get into a massive argument over than its better to play it safer. 

posted 5 years ago